.... and there is not a day goes by still today that he doesn't tell me how much he appreciated what we did for his family.
Then I would think is that this just added fuel to his fire. Here is a lady that took care of his family while he was away, who went above and beyond while he was in Iraq, and then he finds out THIS is how his wife repays that sort of kindness???? 
Unfortunately, this type of person is not an anomaly (sp?). As I'm sharing this story with hubby, I tell him this is exactly the kind of thing my mother would do. She would do something this extreme; she would lie about it; when the evidence was shoved in her face, she would change her story and swear it's contrived to make her LOOK guilty, proclaiming that everyone was against her.
There's a reason I haven't associated with her for over 15 years. And I haven't regretted one day of it.
Yes, as everyone has said, this type of person is dangerous. Call her bluff by calling your lawyer.
This is just unbelievable! She is seriously unwell.
This is a perfect example of a revenge plot coming back to bite her in the butt in a really big way...
Whoa....that's a lot that just went down. Glad it all got straightened out, but can't help but feel sorry for her DH.
Man this is a weird one...........
I agree....
Man this is a weird one...........
I agree....
Me too - I am thinking she would be happy to leave not only the home but the neighbourhood - how could she ever show her face around there again - 
Actually, it is a very sad situation - albeit bought on by herself.
Bluehue
my neighbor's party started about 2 hours ago. My boys stayed over there until about 1:00 am this morning helping them with the decorations. I haven't been to bed yet!!!!!! I got all of her food and goodies done plus my other orders that were due today. The whole neighborhood was invited to the party. I was and still am too exhausted to walk over. They sent me and my Dad 2 huge plates. Now I am going into my Dad's bedroom armed with all the goodies and we are going to watch tv together. I haven't seen too much of him today. My boys have looked after him for me today. He has Alzheimer and today has been a good day, so I am going to enjoy it while he knows me. Cookie Monster did call to apologize to me and my other neighbors and wanted to know if she could come to the party and my neighbor told her of course....NOT!!! Hope everyone has a Happy Halloween!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Almost forgot today is Scooter's BD! he is 2. We rescued him out of the middle of the road 2 years ago. He's the best dog ever! He's half dalmatian and half bird dog! Of course our other dogs are the bomb, too. Rolo is a miniature black and tan dachshund, Dottie is a wired haird dachshund, who looks like Willie Nelson and Lucy is a bishon frise.
"........my boys.......help her decorate....also am helping her with the catering,.......just feel like she shouldn't suffer at the hands of cookie monster...."
Now that's taking the high road! Good for you. In the long road you will come out smelling like a rose
It sounds to me like she has developed some kind of mental problem. Please Don't be too hard on her....like following up w/an attorney. The neighbors all stood w/you; basically the problem has been resolved. She now has enough to handle w/being thrown out by her DH. Stay on the high road.
I can't believe she actually asked to come to the party! That really, really, REALLY screams she is not right in the head! Paula - I read this entire thread and you sound like such an amazing lady, good for you! Big caking hugs to fill your big caking heart!
Lauren 
I have to say that I am very impressed with how you handled things in the end. Sounds to me like you have a full plate - with your dad and all. Brought tears to my eye when I read that dad has Alzheimers. Enjoy him while you can ( and while he can). Hopefully cookie monster will get the help she needs. If in fact she has a mental illnes, she can't be blamed, but DEFINITELY needs help. Hopefully (and I am sure you will be) you will be supportive to DH.
I remember your orginal post, and I must say WATCH YOUR BACK. I do not for one second believe that this is over with yet. I think this woman has some serious issues and will look for a way to retaliate. I would at the very least file a report with your local police department, so there is a record of the incident. I feel so sorry for her husband, can you imagine be married to someone like that. How embarrassing. I think this woman most definitely needs to seek professional help.
If in fact she has a mental illnes, she can't be blamed, but DEFINITELY needs help.
I understand your reasoning, but my personal insight has to disagree with this as a blanket statement.
My mom is nuts. Period. Some may recall my story on how my Sister #2 had to go to court to get guardianship of Sister #4 (who was retarded and dying of cancer) away from our mother for reasons too numerous to go into here but it all had to do with how she is just deranged.
Our mother may be deranged, off-balanced and just plain 'ole nuts, but she knows EXACTLY what she is doing every second that she is doing it. The only thing that is illogical about the whole thing is that she believes that she won't get caught and if she IS caught (as she has been many times), then all she has to do is lie her way out of it because no one will catch her in that lie either.
I agree that some illnesses and disabilities may be grounds for someone not to be responsible for their actions ..... but not always.
Lived it .... survived it ..... got the hell out of it. Became an armchair expert on some of this stuff.
We may not want to believe it but it's very true: Some people are just evil. That's all there is to it. THey are just evil.
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