ok i missed when you asked my age janette. im 26 i had my son two weeks after my 17th bday then i got married when i was 20. my dh has been very understanding and yes i finally grew out of it and he stuck by me
Rox the reason I asked your age is because I got married at 17. When I was 27 I went through this stage were I wanted to party all the time. Poor DH I would leave him with the kids while I was out with my friends. He is such a good husband, he stuck it out with me and I out grew it. I wish it never happened, but I was young and didn't have good sense. I just love DH he's been through a lot with me.
Wow...that is a great dh you have.
All I know is I'm agravated, the site was giving me the message that this thread has no posts?
Shhhhhhh, I know I feel horrible. My neighbor brought me some fudge and I ate 3/4 of a pound. Now I hate myself.
I have no will power when it comes to chocolate. It's like being a drug addict, I'm a chocolate addict.
I'm that way with buttercream!!!
Krystal, we won't kick you in the head!!
I LOVE ME SOME MAN N CHEESE
I've never tried "Man" and cheese. Sounds yummy.
Maybe in about 4 more days.
Goes with the mouse. 
Janette, the site has been doing that lately. We don't know why. It creates a new page when no one has posted on it, yet. Do you know about our new site? I think for now its backup for when CC goes down. I don't know if I can keep up with two sites?
ok I have a situation here.
My d***head BIL beat up my 17 yo nephew a few days ago. It's a very long story, but this guy is a real piece of work. He's cheated on my SIL--my dh's sister--off and on almost the entire time they have been married. Like 16 years. She has 3 kids. Ages 17, 16, and 15. Only the 15 yo is his. But he has adopted them and they have pretty much been raised as if they were his. Their biological father died when the 16 yo was just a baby. Then this "nice guy" came along and got her pregnant and they got married. These guys have been like a show you see on 20/20 or something. There's always something crazy going on. Anyways, present situation...they started arguing, DN called him a d***. They had more words, DN starts walking up the stairs. The a-hole shoves him hard from behind, and knocks him down. DN gets up throws his cell phone at him, and calls him a B****. The jerk starts hitting him, gave him 2 black eyes and chipped his tooth.
We were unsure of what to do. Whether to go to the police or not. My SIL doesn't want to. DN does.
So today DH decided enough is enough and we don't want something to happen again, so he's going to the police.
He just called and wants me to go sign a statement too. I'm so scared whats going to happen.
I LOVE ME SOME MAN N CHEESE
I've never tried "Man" and cheese. Sounds yummy.
Maybe in about 4 more days.
ok i missed this post until mon quoted it you are sooo funny loops i was wondering why 4 more days? then i remembered DUH!!!!!!
hmmmm the things you can do with man n cheese
I LOVE ME SOME MAN N CHEESE
I've never tried "Man" and cheese. Sounds yummy.
Maybe in about 4 more days.
Goes with the mouse.
LOL somehow I missed that Loops!
they will probably just have all you guys get a restraining order on the BIL so he cant come around any of you but im sure he will be arrested to beating up a minor. that is a horrible story krystal
mom has been released. Gonna go pick her up.
Yaay!!
Talk to you soon!
I'll be back. Everyone's down there right now. DN, DH, MIL, FIL.
ok I have a situation here.
My d***head BIL beat up my 17 yo nephew a few days ago. It's a very long story, but this guy is a real piece of work. He's cheated on my SIL--my dh's sister--off and on almost the entire time they have been married. Like 16 years. She has 3 kids. Ages 17, 16, and 15. Only the 15 yo is his. But he has adopted them and they have pretty much been raised as if they were his. Their biological father died when the 16 yo was just a baby. Then this "nice guy" came along and got her pregnant and they got married. These guys have been like a show you see on 20/20 or something. There's always something crazy going on. Anyways, present situation...they started arguing, DN called him a d***. They had more words, DN starts walking up the stairs. The a-hole shoves him hard from behind, and knocks him down. DN gets up throws his cell phone at him, and calls him a B****. The jerk starts hitting him, gave him 2 black eyes and chipped his tooth.
We were unsure of what to do. Whether to go to the police or not. My SIL doesn't want to. DN does.
So today DH decided enough is enough and we don't want something to happen again, so he's going to the police.
He just called and wants me to go sign a statement too. I'm so scared whats going to happen.
OMG!!!! I would sign it - I would be scared too, but I would still sign. Actually wouldn't DN be old enough to do it on his own? Or maybe he doesn't want to because mom doesn't want to? OMG, I'm so sorry!! That is terrible.
Krystal-I think they will try to talk to your DN and SIL. They will ask if they want to press charges. If they do not, then it will get referred to the attorney general's office (I think thats the office name). Then the attorney general's office will get to decide if they want to move forward or not. SIL may not have a choice. For the well being of your DN, the "man" <---for lack of a better term, needs to be punished. DN needs to get a restraining order, but first he has to file a police report. DN can file without SIL. Also, since you and dh filed a report, you will be called as a witness, if you refuse to go, they will supbeona you.
I hope all of this made sense. My mind moves fast and my hands can't type quickly enough
That's what I thought you have been through the same as me. I'm just glad we both got past it and didn't do anything stupid.
Do you remember being 17. You thought you were all grown up and you knew what you wanted. I look back now and think how stupid teen-agers are.
I can't tell you how happy I was when DD was 28 when she married and DS was 29. They have been all over the country and to other counties. They both lived a full life.
I'm not saying I'm sorry for the choices I made. I can't even think about my life without DH. But, I think they were a lot more mature than I was.
When I was 12 I was pretty much on my own. Ever wonder how I am so bad at spelling, one report card I had 45 days absence. They didn't check up on you then like they do now. I had even been in a girls gang for a while.
GM went back to work. Her Boyfriend finally had enough and left - there went her meal ticket. So no one was home to watch me. I grew up really fast so I thought I just knew everything at 17.
What saved me is when my Mother married and her husband ( I will always refer to him as my Dad) told my Mother he wanted her to get me and live with them.
He was self-educated. Extremely wise, good memory and was one of those people that could walk through a room and tell you everything that was in the room. He didn't know how to show love but I knew he loved me and my Mother.
He gave up on life after my Mother's death. Well, were I was going he taught me. I only knew the life that was in the neighborhood I grew up in. He taught me that you can always move forward and better yourself. It's up to you. He watched over my school work and helped me bring up my grades. I could never play hooky from school. When he spoke it was word and never question him.
I offten wonder what road my life would have gone if it hadn't been for him. I know it would have been a bad one. When I think how far I've come I still can't believe it. I owe it all to him. I just hope he knew how much I loved him.
DH is getting off work. I am so excited DD agreed for him to pick up DG and bring him over for the evening. I can't wait.
Yay Loops, so glad she is doing good. Keep mom calm and relaxed.
Krystal-Good luck, I'll say a prayer for you and your family.
here its called district attorney. my sis hit her BF and called the cops then decided not to press charges but it still went o the DA's office for him to decide
Good luck Krystal!
Loops give mom lots of hugs from all of us!
here its called district attorney. my sis hit her BF and called the cops then decided not to press charges but it still went o the DA's office for him to decide
Thats it...your right. LOL! I knew it wasn't right, but it was all I could think of. 
Janette-Thats a great story. I'm sure he knew how much you loved him. You were lucky to have him in your life. Yay for DGS coming over!
Oh my Janette - it sounds like if it hadn't been for your dad you would probably be dead right now. Thank God for him! or we may never had met you!
I try to make sure my cousins make smarter decisions then i did. they think because i got pregnant and now i have all that i have that it will be the same for them. but i tell them i was so lucky that DH stuck with me and got through school and got a good job and took care of us things might not e the same with them and sure enough they got pregnant from guys that left them
Every time I see that pic of Heath and Jackie on the home page I think it is Monica and her DH!!!
I try to make sure my cousins make smarter decisions then i did. they think because i got pregnant and now i have all that i have that it will be the same for them. but i tell them i was so lucky that DH stuck with me and got through school and got a good job and took care of us things might not e the same with them and sure enough they got pregnant from guys that left them
Oh no! 
That is so sad.
I think if a 15 year old is feeling threatened to the point that he wants to call the police, this is something you must do for his safety and well being. He needs to feel like you guys are going to protect him, if not he will resent you all for standing by and doing nothing when he was in a dangerous situation. It is by no means normal that a family member kick another family member's a$$, much less a child's. Drastic measures need to be taken and NOW. This could prove to be a turning point in the child's life and if nothing is done now, he may go down a dark, hard path. Sorry to be all dramatic, but I grew up in an abusive environment. I despise most of my family for standing by while my cousins and I and my mom and aunts were abused. My aunts and my cousins didn't seek the help they need, and now they are all repeating the sick behaviors. I'd hate to see how my cousins turned out. My mother took me away from the situation and shielded me from it, enough so that I wasn't hurt, but still got to see these people for who they were. I still remember my father standing by, laughing with his friends while one of them extinguised his cigarette on my arm. I was 7. The memory is still clear to me now, 20 yrs later.
Roxxx-At least you tried. Most people wouldn't have. Hopefully they can get on track for the kids.
I forgot to tell you all, when I was coming home from work, I hit a bird. I didn't mean to. I felt sooo bad. Feathers were everywhere. I was going 50mph and all of a sudden I hear a thud and feathers go flying. I saw it fly right in front of the car. I didn't even have time to think about stopping. I think it was commiting suicide. Poor birdy. When I got home, I was so thankful it wasn't stuck in my grill. There was blood though. I had to hose it off. My dh just had my car washed yesterday too. 
ok i gotta clean and get ready take DS to gymnastics ill be back late
hopefully wisdom took a hike lol
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