I want to make a cake for a friend of mine who would find it hilarious to receive a penis cake. She just had surgery and I know it would totally cheer her up.. I don't have many cake pans to go by and have never carved a cake so really need step by step instructions or a template or something??

I have Wilton's 11 x (something) -- can't remember the rest.. square cake pan. I also have Wilton's 6 inch round cake pan..

I also want to do this in buttercream, no fondant!! Any tips on how to get a "fleshtone" please let me know that as well..

Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

Copper and ivory icing colors will make a fleshtone. I've only done it with fondant...which sometimes looks disgustingly lifelike...but it will work with buttercream as well.

The rectangle pan should give you the shape you need, just cut it in half the long way and stack the two halves, then round off the corners and top edges. If you're making balls too, bake them in oven-safe bowls to get a rounded shape easily.

Another option would be to make a pretty round cake, decorate it with flowers on the top, and then make a penis out of candy clay or marizpan and have that sticking straight up out of the top of the cake.

I baked it a soup can and bowls for the one I made. I saw the directions on here somewhere

I've got some good "adult cake" tutorials on my website, hopefully they can help

http://www.easy-cake-decorating.com/adult-cakes.html

My mom showed me an easy way to make a penis cake a long time ago. Cut the sides of a rectangular cake to make it look like a torso with arms and legs cut off. Really, who wants to see those anyway? Lol! Then ice the cake, a cream horn, and 2 donut holes with a fleshtone icing. Attach the cream horn with toothpicks in a stand up position with the donut holes as the balls by the cut off legs. Use 2 hershey kisses as the nipples. Then toast some coconut and sprinkle on for hair on the chest, arm pits, and nether regions if you so choose. So quick and simple yet so funny! I've made it 3 times now for bachelorette parties and everyone loved them!