I, Too, am one of the lucky ones. My Dh is very supportive, however is unable to be home everynight, because he is a truck driver, I get to see him two nights a week and I work one of them, (I work 6 days a week) So on my day off I do a lot of cleaning, laundry (DH will not do laundry, unless he has too, and WILL NOT put away clothes) However, I will not clean the bathroom. He does like to vacuum but does not do it, it has needed done for the past month... (I did it once, but it needs done again)
When DH is home, he is pretty Lazy, and I end up doing everything eventhough I work 6 days a week. he gets upset with me because I will be (as he calls it) Flitzing around the house - Trying to get things done, and I'll need to go to bed (I work nights) to get some sleep and I will do house work instead, or I'll want to do something and I'll say I really don't have time to do that because this, this , this , and this needs done... He says that will be there til later.. and I just say ya, I guess, and either do it anyway or let it sit.
So Last week, he said what if we get someone to come in and dust and vacuum every other week or so... I said that is fine, but I wouldn't want anyone in this house the way it is now. (we already have someone who mowes our lawn in the summer)
So needless to say, I love my DH and wouldn't trade him for the word, because I know that if he was home, and boy do I get mad when he can't get home for the two days that is supposed to be home, he helps with what he can.
Sorry this is so long... ranting a little bit, but I love my hubby!
Maybe it has something to do with our birthdays????
Yes, it is! Aries are I-Me-My people. They make the best salesmen becuase they believe everything they do or say is right! I worked with a double-Aries once. She commented on how much better we got along since she and I discovered our signs. "Wonder why that is?" she asked.
I said to my Aries friend, "Because I started giving you the respect you thought you deserved!"
(and we're still best friends!)
Could be why I was so good in sales hey Indydebi!!! ![]()
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Your to funny: "Because I started giving you the respect you thought you deserved!"
OMG! talking about TP, my hubby won't finish the shampoo bottle. We both use the same, so I used to always be finishing off all his bottles. i stopped, when we didn't have any more new ones, he told me there's no more shampoo... He bought some himself the next day. I told him, if there isn't enough in there to use, throw it out! but i noticed in my mil's shower, a whole lineup of "almost finished" shampoos and body washes (he only uses bar soaps, not liquid), so i guess that's what he saw growing up, can't blame him...
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I am definitely one of the lucky ones. Mine makes icing, cleans the kitchen, does laundry when I fall behind (which is kinda frequent - haha), vacuums, dusts, drives patiently while I pray during cake deliveries, feeds me and the kids when I am in the cake zone, and has some other special talents I shouldn't share here.
Right now he is making my breakfast and will be coloring some fondant to a terra cotta color in a little while. Seriously, I am so spoiled. The man is amazing.
The only thing he doesn't do is clean the bathroom. I don't know why, but I don't care. In 18 years of marriage, he just keeps getting better and better. ![]()
I hope my sons are as good of husbands when they get married as their daddy is!
I hope my sons are as good of husbands when they get married as their daddy is!
I am desperately praying the my son is better than his dad. I mean, I kind of got suckered into him before we got married... He was able to keep some of his more annoying and HIDEOUS traits under wraps for a while, and then after we got married ALL the ghosts came out. UGH!!! Now I'm dealing with it, but it's a process.
And seriously, I am an Aries. My DD is one too. It is making for an interesting Teen-age years situation. It ALSO means that my DH is ALWAYS wrong, and I am ALWAYS right!!!! Just ask him!!!! ![]()
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I must have the best husband in the world then. He never complains about what I feed him or if the house is clean or how much mess I make with my cakes. He always supports whatever I do and does thing himself if he wants it before I can get to it. I can feed him microwaved hot dogs and he says "thanks for fixing dinner hon." I would not trade him for anything in the world.
FOR ALL OF YOU OUT THERE WITH THE NONUNDERSTANDING HUSBANDS I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU....I TOO HAVE AN AWESOME HUSBAND. WHEN WE HAD OUR SECOND DAUGHTER THAT WAS 2 POUNDS WHEN SHE WAS BORN, MY HUSBAND SAID...MAYBE YOU SHOULD STAY HOME AND TAKE CARE OF HER AND FOCUS ON YOUR CAKE BUSINESS! HOW MANY GUYS WOULD DO THAT. HE ALSO IS MY BEST FONDANT COLORER! HE HAS BEEN ON HIS HANDS AND KNEES AT 3 IN THE MORNING CLEANING UP POWDERED SUGAR AND ICING TO HELP ME OUT. NOW THAT IS LOVE!
HE IS ALSO MY BIGGEST FAN!! HIS MOTTO IS HE HOPES TO RETIRE WHEN HE IS 40, TO HELP ME SINCE I WILL BE SO FAMOUS BY THEN (WE ARE 33 NOW). I KEEP TELLING HIM I CAN ONLY HOPE AND PRAY TO BE!
You are all hilarious and I am LMAO as I read these posts. My husband is a sweetheart for the most part. He loves my hobby and is my biggest fan. He helps with laundry, does the dishes (I leave them long enough and he gets the message) and cleans up after me and our son. The one thing that really annoys me is that he always leaves empty boxes, containers...on the counter when the garbage bin is 2 steps away. What's up with that? He also doesn't wipe off the sink when he splashes from washing his face. I wouldn't trade him for the world though, because despite getting home @ 1am, he's up in the AM, gets our son ready and off to school by 8am. He doesn't complain when I spend money on my hobby and I do whatever makes me happy (shopping etc.). If I don't make dinner (I only do approx. 3-4xs/wk) he finds something to eat. I also don't drive on weekends, because I work an hour from home and sit in traffic all week, so he chauffers me around all weekend. He is not perfect, but I am blessed to have him.
Before my husband and I even moved in together and were just talking about kids and marriage we had a conversation. I pretty much told him that there is no "you" in this relationship, this is a "we" thing. Just because I am a woman does not mean I do all of the cleaning and cooking. We do not babysit OUR kids, if there is something you want to do and I am free I have the kids and vice versa. We are both independent people and that is what we like about each other. This is my second marriage (no kids from the first one thank God!) so I was not going to enter into this one with rose colored glasses. Sometimes it is not easy but he is my friend and we work together. We have five kids (two sets of twins a year apart), the oldest is 8. He gets up every morning and makes their lunches while I comb hair and help find the lost shoe or whatever it is that morning.
Sometimes just being honest and up front about things works. Other times I have to remember he is man and I have to find a way to explain it to him that will make sense to him. I am a very passionate person about things that are important to me, so he has to put up with me which is not easy.
This is going to sound soo bazar, but when he takes a shower he never uses the same towel twice, and sometimes he takes a shower before the gym and after the gym (
Hah! Doesn't sound bizarre to me, at least not anymore. I'm married to his twin. Don't forget the shower after a haircut!
That one obviously needs a new towel, too.
My DH can be frustrating, but I do love him. Evidently, I'm frustrating too. He says I'm stubborn. I tell him I wouldn't be so stubborn if I wasn't always right!
LMAO, this is just what I say to my hubby!
Maybe it has something to do with our birthdays????
He, He, He .... I also tell him that it's a blessing and a curse, as everyone always expects that I know all the answers.
Fortunately, I actually do.
(just kidding, of course, but don't tell anyone else I said that!)
BTW - happy belated b-day!
My DH can be frustrating, but I do love him. Evidently, I'm frustrating too. He says I'm stubborn. I tell him I wouldn't be so stubborn if I wasn't always right!
LMAO, this is just what I say to my hubby!
Maybe it has something to do with our birthdays????
He, He, He .... I also tell him that it's a blessing and a curse, as everyone always expects that I know all the answers.
BTW - happy belated b-day!
Your a hoot!!! You sound so much like me (atleast the way I am with my DH)!
and ditto on the b-day wishes!!![]()
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