My Husband Acting Kinda Weird....... Anyone Else?
Decorating By tashaluna Updated 17 Jul 2007 , 11:04pm by jouj
Every so often, we have a bash your DH post--and I understand a lot of it is just venting.
But I have to say...this thread is NOT funny to me, it is sad. I am sad so many of you struggle with difficult marriages and spouses.
I don't know if you read My original post. This was NEVER meant to be funny. I was asking a question if there were ladies out there like me. I have found that there are. I wasn't "bashing my husband" he is a great man. When I have found something I love I am proud of myself and I would love it if my best friend in the world would understand how important this is to me. As to dropping a hobby for your husband... I agree that if your husband truly loves you he will never ever ask you to give up somthing you truly enjoy. It was just difficult for me to understand why. But like others have posted maybe he just feels a threat. We are still our OWN person even with the family, husband, house and all the other responsibilities that come with ALL that. It is nice to have a hobby/buisness that we can enjoy and friends on cc that can support us as well. I am very greatfull for all of this. there are several women that come from where I come from I am not alone in this.
To finish You must have a diamond in the rouph and good for you. I am glad. As for praying for my bad marriage maybe that would be a great Idea we always need all the help we can get BUT my marraige is not bad nor in trouble... this is just a little issue that I have made big because it is important to me(also to others as we can see) and that is all.
Thank you for all your comments on this thread. It has made me see this issue from so many sides and I am greatfull for that as well.
My DH is kind of up and down about the cakes. One moment he wants me to send pics to his cell phone to show them off. The next minute he is saying negative things or trying to find out if I charged for this and that.
I'm glad I am not alone and some of you can understand. How can he be jealous of a cake!
The are posts on here about us bashing our husbands. My husband is in the room & he asked me why I was laughing so hard that I woke the girls. I told him. He can't believe that I'm telling anyone about the pranks we play on each other. He then wanted me to mention the time his friends came for dinner right after we were married; the two of us ended up in a food fight, which ended when my right eye got filled with Dawn dishwashing liquid. Yep, squeaky clean for days. 
There are some husbands who are more supportive than others. This doesn't mean that they love any less. Maybe they're insecure. I am blessed with a supprtive husband,( he's an srtist) oh, he could crack on my cakes if he wanted to. He would rather eat the cake than wear it.
Yes, my name is Lisa, I have temperment issues. 
I am not known to be a "normal" female. Normal is waayyyy over rated.
On the flip side my husband will tell me if something isn't right, he doesn't want me embarrassed, he also helps too.
My husband is supprotive also. I asked him one time why some men do this. My brother was doing this to my SIL. He said " men have ego problems." DUH! "That when the man is the "breadwinner" then the women starts a hobby such as this & makes money. Somewhere in their brain they get afraid that the women doesn't need them anymore. So as little boys always do with their competition, they try to destroy it."
This one sound like hitting the nail on the head! Maybe I will leave it around for him to read.
Okay, I was completely wrong. Sorry to have posted. Jeez.
justfrosting please don't feel that way. I apologize if I can across strong. I often do. I understand exactly what you're saying. we do have several husband bashing posts. Maybe what we need are more of the helpful husband posts. You were just reminding everyone that we married our husbands for a reason. We need to remember that. I agree completly. It's all too often & easy to find fault with our spouse, much harder to talk of the good they do. I never intended to sound ugly to you or anyone else on here. I apologize really BIG time.
edited to corret spelling. Hopefully I got it right this time.
that's funny gengen! I am going to search for that cake - it will be PERFECT for my hubby!
that would be great - I haven't found it yet but I'm still looking . . . . . thanks
Maybe he would rather have me in the kitchen making a cake, than hear me nagging all day.
Oh my gosh, I hate the term "nag"!
My sister had a great response once when her husband flew off the handle and yelled for her to stop "nagging" him about taking out the trash. She said, "When I have to tell you 4 times to take out the trash and IT'S STILL NOT DONE then I will CONTINUE to tell you to take out the trash since you can't figure out that it's needs done. If you want the "nagging" to stop, then take out the G.D. Trash!!!"
Sometimes, she is my hero!!
maybe he thinks it is nagging because she is telling him instead of asking him. Betting he already has a mother.
Mine has a mother, but SHE wouldn't dare ask him to do something for her, instead, she asks ME to ask him to do it!!
If not ask me she will do it herself. He will go "I'm thirsty" She'll go "what do you want do you want something to eat to go with it?" lol after a few fights of omg wtf when she leaves he now just says he'll get it himself. She is his worst enemy but just doesn't know it making him my worst enemy at times. Only at times. I have boys and hopefully I will raise them differently but I guess we all say that hehehe.
[quote="jouj
Mine has a mother, but SHE wouldn't dare ask him to do something for her, instead, she asks ME to ask him to do it!!
If not ask me she will do it herself. He will go "I'm thirsty" She'll go "what do you want do you want something to eat to go with it?" lol after a few fights of omg wtf when she leaves he now just says he'll get it himself. She is his worst enemy but just doesn't know it making him my worst enemy at times. Only at times. I have boys and hopefully I will raise them differently but I guess we all say that hehehe.[/quote]
My husband and his mom get along just fine. He's her youngest child, and the only boy among 4 girls!! Frankly, he's spoiled!! 
. His mom loves him so much, that she doesn't want to upset him in any way, and he takes advantage of that!
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