Benefit Dinner For Cancer Patient

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jessireb Posted 15 Jun 2006 , 2:50pm
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I have volunteered to do a large sheetcake for a benefit dinner. A former co-worker has cancer. He is a man.

I need an idea for a cake, but don't want it to be sad. I am a beginner, so it can't be too difficult. Any suggestions would be helpful.

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tysmom Posted 15 Jun 2006 , 2:52pm
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Does he have any hobbies that he enjoys? Maybe something along that line.

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thecakemaker Posted 15 Jun 2006 , 2:54pm
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How about the pink ribbon?

Debbie

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Sonya Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 12:39am
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My father had pancreatic cancer and I found out that there are different colors for different diseases and pancreatic cancer was the color purple, so if you can find out what color you would need you could always do a ribbon in that specific color and could write Livestrong on it.

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beachcakes Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 12:50am
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I did a 1/2 sheet for a breast cancer benefit w/ little pink ribbons - in my pictures - you could change the color of the ribbon like sonya mentioned.

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Doug Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 12:58am
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leta Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 4:03am
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I think you need to go to the planner and get more information. At this dinner they may be doing more than eating. What type of entertainment/speakers do they have? What will the centerpieces look like? Is there a program, a flyer, an invitation? Don't go it alone. You are not the only person putting effort into the event. Other people will care as much as you do how the cake looks if it is displayed and served.

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jessireb Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 3:30pm
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I asked the planner and she told me that she didn't care what was on the cake because they were just going to cut it. LOL

I called the American Cancer Society and she didn't have an answer for me on the color of ribbon. She said there was something, but she couldn't find it! She said there is not a generic cancer symbol either. I might just do a crecent moon and star symbol that is in the relay for life logo.

I appreciate all your responses.

What do you think of a small rainbow on each slice?

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jessireb Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 6:35pm
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Well I have decided what I am going to do. I will be making a cake in the shape of a t-shirt. Buttercream frosting in yellow with black accents and the work livestrong across the front. This will be quick and easy (I hope).

Thank you all for you help and suggestions.

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Doug Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 6:40pm
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jessireb Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 6:51pm
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Doug you are so right. That is why I was trying to stay away from ribbon. I didn't like any of the ideas I was throwing around so that is why I went with your suggestion of the yellow shirt. It will be very simple and I think the word LIVESTRONG will get the message across to everyone.

Thanks Doug as usual you come through in a pinch!

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Doug Posted 16 Jun 2006 , 7:03pm
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twinsline7 Posted 17 Jun 2006 , 2:29am
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WOW.....I really dont see the need to be so condescending....

granted maybe a pink ribbon may not be the best color for a man....but in all reality breast cancer isnt simply about women....and it isnt just women who went around painting the world pink...just as it isnt all men who are now painting it yellow....

and was the same kind of rant and vent brought up about the Mothers Day contest with a donation to breast cancer???? Its a Fathers Day contest with a donation to a great cancer survivor foundation.....not a who can make the best Lance Armstrong cake. SO just as there wasnt pink ribbons all over the mothers day cakes....nor should there be yellow ones for the Fathers Day cakes....


I really thought this was an idea section.....meaning give all any and everyone....not do what I say ...end of story.

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jessireb Posted 17 Jun 2006 , 2:43am
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twinsline,

Doug and I were not discussing the father's day contest. We were trying to come up with ideas for a cake that I am making for a man that has cancer and his co-workers are having a benefit to raise money so he and his family can continue to live in their home.

I do agree with Doug that pink is not really a manly color. I know my husband would not like it if someone made him a pink cake.

I might be mistaken, but I think the pink ribbon logo is for breast cancer whether it be a woman or a man. This man does not have breast cancer. His cancer is in his lymph glands, so I did not feel that the pink ribbon was appropriate.

I am sorry if we offended you in anyway, it was not meant to be offensive to anyone. As far as this being an idea forum, I did decide on a cake through the conversations here.

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twinsline7 Posted 17 Jun 2006 , 3:05am
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jessie.....my offense isnt over the discussion of pink...like I said I agree it probably isnt the best color....
Im glad you were able to get an idea off the thread.....it just seemed some of the comment about "ladies not getting it" and the reference to the fathers day comment took it another direction...as in I gave an idea about lance armstrong...Im a man he's a man the cake is for a man....use it

Which is where my post meaning came in.....
I know it isnt my job to monitor threads....and I wasnt doing that I just felt I wouldnt want to give any ideas after that post.....

And although I didnt post an idea...I still found the condescending to be personally offensive...as a woman.

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ladyluna Posted 17 Jun 2006 , 4:38pm
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I like your idea of the yellow t-shirt...if it helps at all, I happen to know that the color of ribbon for lymph cancer (lymphoma) is lime green. I have a friend currently battling it. Glad to hear that the gentleman you're doing the cake for has done well with his battle and good luck with your cake!

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7yyrt Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 1:29am
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Um...Ladies, not intending to start a fight, but you might like to know that Doug has apparently removed all of his posts...as of Fri Jun 16, 2006 8:46 pm....................

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SugarFrosted Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 1:36am
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Do we have any clue why Doug would do that?

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jessireb Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 1:46am
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If you read all the posts in this thread you will probably see why. I totally understand why he did it. I am sorry that he did and I hope he returns as he gave everyone here quite a bit of help.

DOUG IF YOU ARE STILL OUT THERE PLEASE RETURN!!!!!!

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SugarFrosted Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 1:54am
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By the time I got to this thread, all of Doug's posts were gone, on every thread, everywhere. His pictures are still in the gallery, tho, but nothing else. So I have no idea what happened, and I hate to make a guess based on a one sided conversation.

Doug, please come back! We love you!

Edit: To stay on topic, I found a ribbon for Lymphoma, it is red. Alternate color for the Lymphoma ribbon, is Lime.

http://www.personalizedcause.com/shop/collections/classic/detail/c_lime.html

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twinsline7 Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 2:23am
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If you read all the posts in this thread you will probably see why





if it were possible to read them ALL.....Im sure Ive been left and made out to be the witch of it all.....but I will stand by what I said....Im sorry for you all that Doug responded in the way he did...and that it is a loss to you....but I was not wrong for my reply.

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ge978 Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 2:28am
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I read his original posts & was offended & I think he went a little overboard....Twins I don't think you were a witch. If Doug got upset & left , I know alot of people will be upset, but I can't really believe its all because of this thread.

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jessireb Posted 18 Jun 2006 , 2:32am
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Everyone is allowed to have an opinion including Yourself and Doug. I don't see anywhere in this thread that anyone has made you out to be anything.

I am done with this thread and I am moving onto another subject.

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