I know I am not the most active member in terms of posting, but I read here every day and now I just need to get this off my chest. I am getting a divcorce 
actually I already got it. And my computer broke. I don't even feel like decorating cakes anymore My horse is ill also.
Please tell me it gets better! 
I am so sorry. It will get better .Probably not go away but get better.
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It will get better, it will just take some time. I don't know what the circumstances are, but just try think of this as a new beginning. I've had a lot of different new beginnings and am about the start another. It can be a scary thing, but also exciting.
And you know, I've learned alot from each new chapter in my life. I wish you the very best and just know that your CC friends are here for you.
Cindy
P.S.--You are a wonderful cake decorator and I hope you won't give it up. Your tutorials on flowers are so helpful. And I hope your horse is better soon.
Your CC friends are here for you
Divorced 20 years ago .... been happily married the past 18 years. Been there.
I remember the times that I just wanted to sit down and cry because "...what made me think I could do this!!??" But I had to. And I could only take about 27 seconds to feel sorry for myself because I had two kids who only had me to depend on. It was a rough two years and I never want to go thru it again.
Having gotten that out of the way, I'm here to tell you that yes, it DOES get better. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger and God will not give you a load bigger than what you can carry. There is a purpose in everything and everything has a purpose.
I just took things one day at a time. Celebrate the little things ..... I remember putting a jigsaw puzzle together with my kids, eating popcorn while watching the Wizard of Oz with them, finding pants with the price tags still on them at a garage sale.
We CC'er's have pretty broad shoulders and plenty of extra electronic hugs for everyone! You've got lots of family support here! 
I know it's a difficult time right now, but things will get better - there is life after divorce. I was divorced many years ago and my current DH & I have been together 25 years now.
What is wrong with your horse? Have you called a Vet to have him or her checked?
I've been through a divorce and have several friends also .As with anything in life...time heals all wounds.Give yourself permission to grieve as it may and you'll pick yourself up and things will begin to get better.
Been there, done it, won't do it again... I know where you're coming from, I really do... I know how tough it can be when you're single and things in your life go wrong, but like my Mom use to tell me all the time and I tell my children the same thing, "If you think you have it bad, look over you shoulder because there's someone much worse than you could ever think you are" .. and it's true.. I make myself look at other people who are in a wheelchair or sick from some illness and I'm just so thankful that I have my health, my family and my friends ... so hang in there hun, it will get better.. chin up!!
Just wanted to give you some (((big hugs))). You have lots and lots of support here, whenever you need it. Hang in there. Things will get better.
I got divorced 4 years ago, now I know is one of the best things that ever happened to me. I remember buying many books, one of them the silly WOMAN ARE FROM VENUS MAN ARE FROM MARS IN DIVORCE it isn't a great book or anything, but what made me smile was that all the difficult things I was going thru, all the anger all the sadness, was such a normal thing in this situation that it was described in the book so well, cause is what everybody who divorces goes thru, and it also said that will pass and it will go away, FOR ALL THE SAME.
I know now it feels like this worst anyone has it, but believe me it will go away, and you'll be happy again, cakes will come back, love will come back, it happened to me too
All you have to do is look for all the good things you still have. You have the love for decorating cakes so when you are feeling down work on a cake. I have been through a divorce or two and I would' like others, think of everything you still have and tell yourself, and believe it, that he is the one who has lost, not you. It does get better, just pick yourself up and go on. There is more in life, so live it. Hope your horse is feeling better. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
your friend,
Kandi
I don't think there is anything any of us can say that will make it easier for you or make the pain go away but you do have a lot of us that are here to help comfort you even if it is just to listen to you. I got married right out of high school and was divorced two years later . I found myself a single mom and no where to go except back to my parents. I got remarried six years later and two years ago my husband came home (out of the blue) one night and said it just wasn't working for him. We went our seperate ways and ended up getting back together but it has been extremely hard. I know everything looks very grim but you will get through it. Just remember we are here for you. We are your family...
Faye
Thank you so much... it is not a difficult divorce, as in, we're still friends. But now I have to start all over... all alone.
It is so nice to know that you guys on CC care.
My horse has a bad back, hopefully nothing serious. Vet will check her again first thing next week.
Hugs to you all!
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