Would It Be Tacky If......

Decorating By noosie Updated 29 Mar 2007 , 4:33pm by Janette

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noosie Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:07pm
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I recently resigned from my job in the business and legal world (accountant, 8 yrs, legal assistant 1 year) to pursue my dream of cake decorating and dessert sculptures. My husband set up a very simple website for me but other than that I really haven't done much marketing. I kind of rely on word of mouth. My husband & I were just invited to one of his co-workers son's 1st birthday party. I have met them on a previous occasion. Would it be tacky if I offered to make the birthday cake for her son. No payment of course, just a way to showcase my cakes. I just don't want to offend anyone. Any advice???? icon_redface.gif

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JoAnnB Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:12pm
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You could call and offer- without pressure. In case they haven't already made arrangements for cake.

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kdkamp Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:13pm
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No, I don't think that would be tacky. I think anyone would love that offer. Maybe that could be your gift to him instead of buying a present.

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jenbenjr Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:14pm
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I don't think you would offend anyone. I think it would be a very nice gesture.

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CakeDiva73 Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:15pm
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I think donating cakes is a great way to advertise ~ I wish you luck on your new venture icon_smile.gif

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tyty Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:19pm
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No it would not be tacky? Never hurts to ask. If they already ordered a cake, take a cookie bouquet as a gift if you bake cookies.

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newcakemaker Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:28pm
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I don't think it would be tacky to call them up and ask if they would be ok with you making the cake and donating it to them. I do the same thing sometimes!

Good Luck!

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Sunshine93 Posted 27 Mar 2007 , 7:30pm
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I don't think it would be tacky at all! She might really appreciate it!

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practiceandpatience Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 1:15am
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It would not be tacky to offer, and most likely be a very welcomed and appreciated gesture.

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kjgjam22 Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 2:37am
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i agree it wouldnt be tacky. its a nice gesture even with the ulterior (spellcheck) motive.

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ladyonzlake Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 2:45am
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No it wouldn't be tacky. You could explain that you're trying to develop your cake portfolio and as a gift to them you'd like to make their child's birthday cake if they don't already have plans for a cake.

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Lueet Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 2:59am
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Go for it! At least you've got a portfolio they can check so they know you're up to snuff. The worst they can say is that they already have someone (but who would turn down free cake?!).

BTW, I looked at your website and I LOVE those turkey cupcakes! What did you use for the cookie part? I am going to have to borrow that idea next fall if you don't mind...

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jlh Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 3:04am
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I've found that people are MORE THAN WILLING to "help" when you want to get your cakes out there. They would rather help the little guy get started, than get another boring Costco sheet cake w/white cake and white buttercream. If she has email, send her a message. That way, if she wants to turn down the offer, she can think about it and turn it down politely. On the phone, she may feel put on the spot. I think it's a great idea. Good luck.

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LanaC Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 3:09am
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I don't think it would be tacky, but since it's a first birthday, I would want to make sure the mother is treated as you would any customer in allowing her to pick the design, etc. Second birthday, who cares. First birthday, she might want something specific.

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imartsy Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 3:20am
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I would ask if you could make it as a gift - but not ask to "donate" it.... you don't want to end up w/ people always expecting cakes as gifts or to get cakes for free!! But tell the mom or whomever that you love to make cakes and aren't really sure what to get the little boy and wondered if you could make the cake if they hadn't already ordered one. Then just make sure you don't go too elaborate for free.... do something better than the grocery store, but a little simple so people don't think you can just "whip up" an elaborate cake for free.

Good luck!

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noosie Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 11:29am
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Thank you all for the great advice. I guess I just needed a little push. icon_surprised.gif)

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mom23kids Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 4:16pm
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I agree......offering to make the cake is a great idea. I too, would check to see what the mom would like for the theme...good luck and post a pic please thumbs_up.gif

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birdgirl Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 5:25pm
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No it is not tacky. I have offered to make a couple of cakes when I found out there was a birthday free of charge. The parents jumped at the chance and now they are repeat customers!

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springlakecake Posted 28 Mar 2007 , 6:39pm
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I offered once and it got me my first paid cake (from them!) I offered it as a 'gift' since I felt like I had owed them for something they had done for us. I told her she could totally say no and I would not be offended. She was actually very pleased! Now she is my best customer! You could offer and say that since you have recently resigned from your job and have really taken an interest in cake decorating and like an opportunity to practice that you would be delighted if they would let you do the cake as a gift. But tell them you would understand if they had already made arrangements for one. Send them a link to your website so they know you are up for the challenge!

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Janette Posted 29 Mar 2007 , 4:33pm
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I do it all the time. I ask if I could do the cake as my gift.

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