Thanks all for the words and the laughs!!! I'm feeling a little better. I have started my cake and whenever I sit to make gumpaste roses, or work on the icing, I feel almost in my zen spot 
. Maybe that's a good omen. And after reading about what some of you go through, I'll just be thankful for all the good things about my MIL. My husband has even offered to clean the house for me (you bet I took him up on it - though I still cleaned the bathrooms - he seems to forget those are part of the house when he cleans). I do look forward to her spending time with my children. She is a better grandma than mother. My biggest worries now are sharing my space (my home is my haven) and any family feuds that could possible arise. But, I will console myself with my cake, and trust that the best will happen, and try to enjoy her visit. Thanks all.
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