Aside from the fighting that's discourage me a bit, I haven't been on because of an incident in my life that has caused me to postpone cake decorating for who knows how long. I don't know if it's better to postpone or not because of my father's recent death. It got me thinking, we have some blessed elderly people on CC and I wish upon all of you health. I don't know what CC would be without some of you. Thanks.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my father a few years ago and know how painful it is.
Only you can decide if cake decorating is something you want to continue. If it is something you really enjoy, please continue to persue your passion. Best wishes.
Cindy
Thank you Cindy. I guess I just can't believe he's no longer here. I haven't met with my psychologist yet, but is it recommended to continue something you enjoy or not? I think my aunt said something about that a couple of years when her husband died.
I'm no psychologist, but I believe that you should do whatever you can that will allow you to take your mind off your grief and help you begin to heal. It might be a while before you can really get into something whole-heartedly, but that doesn't mean you can't do a little decorating when you feel like it.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I think you should definitely continue to decorate cakes if it is something you enjoy. I'm sure your father would want you to be happy.
I was very close to my father before he died. He was really my best friend and it hurt alot to not be able to share my joys and sorrows with him. It has gotten easier as the years go by, but I still think about him everyday.
I don't know the circumstances of your father's death. My father was really suffering at the end of his life. I take solace in knowing that he is no longer suffering and that I was sitting beside him when he took his last breath.
I hope my saying these things doesn't bring you pain but gives you some ideas of dealing with your loss. I was 40 years old when my dad died, but my youngest sister was only 18. I was more concerned for her than for myself because she was so young.
We all deal with pain in different ways but your father would want you to go on with your life in a way that brings you joy and happiness.
Best Wishes,
Cindy
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