I agree with many of your posters since the "We already got legal now we want presents and a party post".

If you are doing the cake that makes your time and effort a gift. If she is spiritually blackmailing you to give it then that makes it ransom. Only do this cake for her with the ingredients bought by her and the labor as your gift.

I read a book one time about Spiritual Blackmail titled "When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You." Family ties are not automatic obligations. You do what is right for you rather than what she wants from you.

-Saying a little prayer for you.

So i have decided that I am going to make my sisters cake ....... even though she has made me crazy for about the past week...... however she is paying for the ingrediants and any extra detail she so desires lol

So i have decided that I am going to make my sisters cake ....... even though she has made me crazy for about the past week...... however she is paying for the ingrediants and any extra detail she so desires lol

Sounds like a great compromise Be sure to post pictures when it's completed!

I will for sure do that...... I will also be posting pictures of 7 cakes i will have done between now and July 4th then 4 more around the 16th of July and 1 on the 22nd of july then maybe i will sleep for a day lol