i have a question for you facebook experts, lol !
is there any way to post on a "friends" wall and *not* have it show up on *your* wall that you posted on theirs?? hope that wasn't confusing! i don't like the fact that my "friends" can go to my profile page and click on the links to see what i have written on other peoples wall. anyone know? thanks!
I wish I knew. I got myself into trouble once. One of dh's friends was stalking my posts and saw something I said about his wife to an unrelated friend. 
no.. but you can always send them a message.. On your friends profile page under their profile photo there is an option to message them...
No. The wall is public. Do not write things there unless you want EVERYONE to read it. Anything else should be sent in a private message.
No, not any more. With Facebook's last upgrade they made it mandatory that when you post on a friend's wall, it shows up on your wall that you made that post.
You can however go to your own wall and delete the post that shows you made a post on your friend's wall.
Hope this helps
You can write on your friends wall and then delete the reporting from your own profile page. There is a little icon saying delete next to the news of your post. I believe you can even turn off the reporting in your security settings-yup pretty sure you can. Best would be to send a message if it is something private. Good luck!
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