Just food for thought...I used to work for a very highly regarded doctor. Everyone loved him and thought he was gonna save the world from disease (small, very small town in KS). As he was getting ready to walk into a room to see a patient he would ALWAYS stop at the door, take a deep breath, and put a smile on his face. As soon as he closed the door behind him after the patient visit that smile would fall right off his face. He was rude and arrogant to me (his nurse), the front office people, and even the practice manager. He once told me that nurses in his country were nothing more than horres (sp?). He was the most "fake" person I have ever known in my life. I am not saying that all pastors or church employees are "fake"...I am saying that somtimes people are not what we think they are.....kind and genuine.