My fiance is driving me NUTS today!!! 
Let's help him out with a Good Idea/Bad Idea List! When YOUR DH/SO is driving you bonkers, send him the link.
I'll go first.
GOOD Idea: Taking out the trash.
BAD Idea: Taking out the trash, leaving the garbage cans sitting in the kitchen without bags. 
GOOD Idea: Making your SO soup and grilled cheese when she is ill.
BAD Idea: Making the soup and grilled cheese, then leaving the pan to get moldy so she can clean it when she feels better. 
GOOD Idea: Washing a load of clothes.
BAD Idea: Washing a load of clothes, and leaving them in the washer for 3 days because you forgot about them.
Ya see, men are very thoughtful. However, their follow-thru is sometimes lacking.
GOOD Idea: Watching the kids so your SO can rest during an illness.
BAD Idea: Sleeping till 1pm the following day because trying to do her daily jobs wears you out.
I love this idea. I do not have a DH/SO. But I have had so I can still play right? j/k
GOOD IDEA: Taking you out to dinner
Bad Idea: Taking her out, asking her to pay 
GOOD IDEA:Taking her out to dinner
Bad Idea: Taking her out to dinner, to someplace you KNOW she hates
GOOD IDEA:sending her flowers
Bad idea: Sending her black roses
I will think of more later. I have BEEN THERE, done that TOO much. Men
I just though of another one:
GOOD Idea. Taking her out to her favorite place & paying
Bad Idea: Taking her out to her favorite place & paying. But acting like you are mad or just not in the mood to be there (I hate that one!!)
Good Idea: washing the dishes
Bad Idea: Making her feel guilty cause you did something
Good Idea: Making dinner
Bad Idea: Making something that you know she doesnt like
Good Idea: Going shopping with your wife
Bad Idea: Complaning the whole time your there.
GOOD Idea: Putting in extra time at work.
BAD Idea: Putting in extra time at work ON YOUR WEDDING DAY. (BIL did this!)
GOOD Idea: Buying a new vehicle for SO when you have the finances to do it.
BAD Idea: Taking out a LOAN to buy a new vehicle WITHOUT TELLING SO - and it's for yourself! (My EX did this - only one of many examples)
Good idea: Transfering money into your SO's account when she's running low.
Bad idea: Telling her she needs to pay you back next payday!!
Good idea: Taking the kids to grandma's so SO can have some alone time at home.
Bad idea: Giving her suggestions about all the things she could be getting done while you're gone.....and them comlpaining they're not done when you get home! 
GOOD Idea: Taking out the trash.
BAD Idea: Taking out the trash, leaving the garbage cans sitting in the kitchen without bags.
GOOD Idea: Making your SO soup and grilled cheese when she is ill.
BAD Idea: Making the soup and grilled cheese, then leaving the pan to get moldy so she can clean it when she feels better.
GOOD Idea: Washing a load of clothes.
BAD Idea: Washing a load of clothes, and leaving them in the washer for 3 days because you forgot about them.
Ya see, men are very thoughtful. However, their follow-thru is sometimes lacking.
GOOD Idea: Watching the kids so your SO can rest during an illness.
BAD Idea: Sleeping till 1pm the following day because trying to do her daily jobs wears you out.
HAHAHA It's like your living my life!!
GOOD Idea: Taking out the trash.
BAD Idea: Taking out the trash, leaving the garbage cans sitting in the kitchen without bags.
GOOD Idea: Making your SO soup and grilled cheese when she is ill.
BAD Idea: Making the soup and grilled cheese, then leaving the pan to get moldy so she can clean it when she feels better.
GOOD Idea: Washing a load of clothes.
BAD Idea: Washing a load of clothes, and leaving them in the washer for 3 days because you forgot about them.
Ya see, men are very thoughtful. However, their follow-thru is sometimes lacking.
GOOD Idea: Watching the kids so your SO can rest during an illness.
BAD Idea: Sleeping till 1pm the following day because trying to do her daily jobs wears you out.
HAHAHA It's like your living my life!!
DARN it! I KNEW this wasn't the life I ordered - you can have yours back!
GOOD Idea: Honey, I know you're not up for it tonight since you've been sick this week.
BAD Idea: So I'll be busy for a while. Alone.
HELLO! That's like saying "I know you can't keep anything down, so I'll eat that chocolate cake without you." How 'bout saving me somethin, eh?
Zmama thank you for starting this thread. Its cracking me up!!
I hope you dont mind me laghing at you alls love life 
I can not think of any more right now. I just woke up.
Zmama thank you for starting this thread. Its cracking me up!!I hope you dont mind me laghing at you alls love life
I can not think of any more right now. I just woke up.
Don't mind at all! He's the best in most ways, dotes on me, it's just that it's kinda like making the cake in that he gets it done but forgets about cleanup.
Laugh away, I am!
GOOD: Giving SO a back massage
BAD: Getting mad when said back massage doesn't lead to you know what!! (what is up with that?)
so i'm slow & not sure who's giving the back massage, but my DH has gotten mad when not quite ALL of me needed a massage--i mean COME ON, i asked for a back massage for a reason, it's not like he was giving just to give, i had to ask & i sure don't remember seeing flowers & candles-lol
GOOD Idea: Honey, I know you're not up for it tonight since you've been sick this week.
BAD Idea: So I'll be busy for a while. Alone.
HELLO! That's like saying "I know you can't keep anything down, so I'll eat that chocolate cake without you." How 'bout saving me somethin, eh?
i'm gonna pee in my pants!!!!!!!!!! that's funny
ok i have a few of my own....
GOOD idea: letting your FIL borrow your truck for the day
BAD idea: taking your wife's car knowing that she has an appointment AND not coming back in time for her to make it to said appointment!!!
GOOD idea: getting up with ds on weekend nights so wife can get well deserved sleep because she got up alone with ds on weekday nights
BAD idea: not changing ds's diaper all night so that wife has a HUGE dirty mess to clean up the next day
GOOD idea: cleaning wife's car
BAD idea: taking the emergency cash/change stashed in the glove compartment
GOOD idea: cleaning the kitchen after wife cooks dinner
BAD idea: not turning on the dishwasher
GOOD idea: not flushing the toilet while wife is in the shower
BAD idea: not flushing the toilet!!!!
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