I'm Burnt Out (Vent)

Lounge By reenie Updated 9 Sep 2007 , 8:51am by emmascakes

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reenie Posted 8 Sep 2007 , 8:39pm
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Okay, so for the last year and a half I haven't gotten a weekend off. It's great because I spend my time filling cake orders and decorating out of my home and making some good money, but really! Not having a weekend to myself and the family has really been bogging me down. The boys (2 & 3) rebel by being some of the winiest little things ever and my hubby gets stressed as well because he comes home from work to winy boys and a busy (sometimes stressed) wife. I'd like to take a break from decorating for a while but bills and anywhere from 1-4 cake orders a weekend keep me from taking one. Anyone else out there in the same boat?

I have a dream of opening my own shop in town because I know it'd do really good given the amount of orders I get strictly by word of mouth. With an out in the open shop I know I'd be evn more busy but I'd also have people helping me with the cakes and other able to take over when I need a break.

So, to the decorators in my boat and with my dream- Can you give me some insight?

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Doug Posted 8 Sep 2007 , 8:57pm
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unless bills mandate...

no one says you HAVE to take cake orders for every weekend.

learn the power of NO.

learn the power of "I have a previous commitment." They don't need to know it's an appointment to take your kids to the pool, yourself to the bubble bath, etc. -- It's your reserved time for you and your family.

the two of those will also breed more desire on part of your customers --- can we say Exclusivity? supply/demand? you lower supply, competition for your services goes up and so do your prices!

Only you can reserve time for yourself.

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reenie Posted 8 Sep 2007 , 9:05pm
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Thanks Doug. I must admit that I really am a push-over when it comes to saying no, but bills really do play a bigger part in saying yes to each and every cake order I get than my want for a weekend off. Stuck between a rock and a hard place. icon_mad.gificon_cry.gif

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jsmith Posted 8 Sep 2007 , 9:09pm
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Goodness, I understand what you're talking about! I've barely had a weekend off all year. I turn down orders and try to limit them but I still stay pretty busy. I try to take off on Sunday and monday though. So maybe you can reserve a day when you are "closed"?

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reenie Posted 8 Sep 2007 , 9:27pm
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That's a good idea! Closed days. Might try that one.

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emmascakes Posted 9 Sep 2007 , 8:51am
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You're getting orders and need the money - how about putting your prices up a bit - $10 a cake? I don't know what kind of work you do or what your competition is, but putting prices up a bit might help make it easier for you to say no.

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