UGHHH that is so awful, I cannot imagine finding out something like that. I am the type to immediately tell though. My father cheated on my mom for years , but she was the "stand by your man" type and they are still married and have been for 34 years. I would beat the SNOT out of my DH, no questions asked.
Are you going to tell her?
Does she know? A good friend of my DH and I had cheated on his wife for several months with the same woman. His wife was away at college getting her Master's and would come home on weekends. She and I aren't the best of friends, but we all hang out together. I couldn't believe he did it!!! Actually, I don't think he knows that I know. I'm pretty sure he told DH in confidence. We're not going to tell her. I'm just not sure how to handle that information. It was a couple of years ago and she's home now. If I were in the wife's shoes, I don't know if I would want to know!! I would kill my DH if he ever did that to me!!
She's the one who told me. Lucky for him he lives across the country. sorry sh**heel snake in the grass.....
I know someone going through this same situation, and she has FINALLY filed for divorce (after 20+ years), but now he is asking to go to counseling and such... so I am afraid that she is gonna back out of the divorce. For all that he has done to her in the past there is no amount of counseling that could ever fix him or the marriage!!! I wish I could send her off to another country so they could not speak until it is all FINAL... 
I told my dh if he did this I would not allow him back into the house once I found out. It is the only thing i would ever kick him out for.
UGHHH that is so awful, I cannot imagine finding out something like that. I am the type to immediately tell though. My father cheated on my mom for years , but she was the "stand by your man" type and they are still married and have been for 34 years. I would beat the SNOT out of my DH, no questions asked
It's crazy! our families are so much alike!!! Only that my parents celebrated their 33rd anniversary this year. I'm sure my father still does though...
And for my dh, I think I'll react like you on this, and wouldn't have time to see me coming!!!
I know more people in the opposite situation - the DW is or has cheated. My mother was always one of them 
until my parents divorced after 32 years of marriage.
Three of our friends had cheating wives who told them straight out that they had a boyfriend!!! Two of those are now divorced, the third is just in a crappy, unhappy marriage still.
It makes me so grateful that not only would my husband never cheat on me, but that I would never cheat on him either. We truly do just love each other so much. (I know, I know - stop with the sappy stuff).
I know more people in the opposite situation - the DW is or has cheated. My mother was always one of them
until my parents divorced after 32 years of marriage. Three of our friends had cheating wives who told them straight out that they had a boyfriend!!! Two of those are now divorced, the third is just in a crappy, unhappy marriage still.
So true. One of my uncles got out of the Navy and had to kick his wife's boyfriend out of the apartment he was paying for. It wasn't the first time he had caught her cheating and a couple years later another boyfriend was visiting during the day while her husband was at work but the kids were home. 
The boyfriend finally got in trouble, he was a cop who was supposed to be patroling. She's been gone for several years now but not because he threw her out, she finally left. He got all the kids including one from her first marriage and he really can't be sure if he's the father to the rest of them because of her running around (the kids don't know this).
I have a few things I would do to my husband if I caught him running around and all of them would make it impossible for him to do it anymore. 
My neighbor went through this. They moved next door from Maryland and after a month of the whole family being here (he moved first to start his job) he told her he was unhappy and wanted a divorce. SOB never said it was becasue he was with someone else and when his wife found out, he had her arrested for slapping him. She said if she knew he was gonna call the cops, she'd have gotten a couple more shots in and made it worth it!
Punch him and puch him hard! my DH and I were having some problems once and a rumor started of him possibly having an affair with a girl I know (who sleeps around like crazy) Well the rumor wasn't true but my husband got a small taste of what would happen if he did He's scarred to death of me now! (I'm 5'2" and 100 lbs. he's 6'3" and 205 lbs) and he's scarred of me, I'm practicaly 1/2 his size!- now that's funny!
Cheating is a coward's way of saying s/he want a break from you.
Cheers, from
SwampWitch
p.s. What does the "D" stand for in "DH" and "DW"?
What does the "D" stand for in "DH" and "DW"?
I'd say it all depends on the context in which it's being used. Using this thread as an example, I think the "D" could certainly stand for "damn", "dumb", or "dumba$$".
I just found out that my best friend's husband is cheating on her. I want to punch him in the face and make him bleed, the sorry s.o.b.
Unfortunately, martial artists are supposed to be non violent.
Does the wife know? Careful...you can get stuck in a sticky situation. (Been there, done that) My best friend didn't know, and I wrestled with whether to tell her or not.
Unlike others here I suggest you *don't* punch him, as that would be assault. You landing in jail is not a good scenario. Let karma do it's work. It will come around on his arse.
I know more people in the opposite situation - the DW is or has cheated. My mother was always one of them
until my parents divorced after 32 years of marriage. Three of our friends had cheating wives who told them straight out that they had a boyfriend!!! Two of those are now divorced, the third is just in a crappy, unhappy marriage still.
So true. One of my uncles got out of the Navy and had to kick his wife's boyfriend out of the apartment he was paying for. It wasn't the first time he had caught her cheating and a couple years later another boyfriend was visiting during the day while her husband was at work but the kids were home.
The boyfriend finally got in trouble, he was a cop who was supposed to be patroling. She's been gone for several years now but not because he threw her out, she finally left. He got all the kids including one from her first marriage and he really can't be sure if he's the father to the rest of them because of her running around (the kids don't know this).I have a few things I would do to my husband if I caught him running around and all of them would make it impossible for him to do it anymore.
My DH was in the Air Force and when we lived on base we had neighbors on both sides of us and thier husbands were always deployed somewhere and if I could have counted all the men I saw come in and out of both of those houses at all hours of day and night I would have had to counted on all my fingers and toes.. 
They no longer let the planes take off and they were bringing in men from all over that base. 
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