How Do You Know When Your Kids Are Lying?

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cookingfor5 Posted 26 Feb 2007 , 3:29pm
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I can tell if my oldest is lying by looking at his eyes. I know when the middle child is lying if his lips are moving. Seriously, if I want to know if he is lying I ask him a question and look only at his lips. They fight a smirch or a twitch when telling a lie. He is a very good liar if I'm not looking for it. The oldest couldn't lie to save his life.

The oldest also smiles through his eyes and the middle has a smile that lights up his face. icon_lol.gif

How do your kids give themselves away?

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mmdd Posted 26 Feb 2007 , 3:39pm
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My oldest twists his shirt, socks, pants...anything he can get his hands on & he can't really look at ya....he's almost 6.

My youngest.......gets me everytime, he's almost 5. I can't ever tell when he's lying.

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shelbur10 Posted 26 Feb 2007 , 3:45pm
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My oldest will have a huge smile or giggle when she's lying. She'll tell her lie, then say, "Really! I'm not lying!"

With my youngest, if I have a doubt, I just say "Really?" and he always fesses up!

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Zmama Posted 26 Feb 2007 , 5:22pm
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The oldest, his eyes get that big, "innocent" look. The youngest, she starts off "well, uh,..."

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mkolmar Posted 26 Feb 2007 , 6:02pm
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My Daughter always starts off with "ummm mommy" and then gives this over the top lie and always end with "For real mommy, you have to believe me, I'm not lying."

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Tweetycup Posted 26 Feb 2007 , 6:16pm
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All three of my kids, just have a look in their eyes that always, always, always gives them away.

They've learned they can't lie to me. I tell them 'I'm Mom, I know everything there is to know about you and if you do do something wrong I WILL find out.' When they do things in school, I will talk to them about it and they can't figure out how I found out.
It's great to have friends everywhere. My kids can't get away with anything bad or good...I also give them hugs and a big congrats when I've heard they've done something really nice at school too.

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JodieF Posted 27 Feb 2007 , 1:44am
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Well, my older two can't lie without me knowing instantly. It's just all over their faces. My youngest lies just as easily as he breathes, and he NEVER breaks down.
When he was about 8 I went into his room to get his sheets and couldn't help but notice about 8 holes burned in his bedspread (not to mention the burning smell in the air). To this day (and he's going on 16) he has NEVER admitted he burned the holes, even though he and I were the only two people in the house at the time! He was punished, lectured, begged, threatened and punished some more, and he never admitted it.
I have to give him credit. He is one stubborn guy! icon_evil.gif

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alip Posted 27 Feb 2007 , 2:04am
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My son is only 2 1/2 but has tried to tell a "story" or 2 recently. I knew he was lying because when I asked him a question he started his answer with "I umm, I umm . . ." Fortunately he has only done this a few times.

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mkolmar Posted 27 Feb 2007 , 2:54am
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OMG Jodie, your son needs to work for the CIA!!! He'd be perfect for it!
He'd drive everyone insaine.

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JodieF Posted 27 Feb 2007 , 3:44am
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*lol* my Ben is quite a character. What saves us is that he has the nicest heart! He's very kind and will help you forever, with no complaints. His stubborn streak continues though!
I'll suggest the CIA to him....might be a perfect fit! *lol* He just might have a little trouble with not always being able to have the last word with his superiors!

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sweetness_221 Posted 27 Feb 2007 , 5:20am
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I can't tell if my 7 year old is lying or not. She can keep a straight face. I know I'm going to have trouble with her when she becomes a teenager. Definatley not looking forward to that. If she lies to me about brushing her teeth now, what is she going to lie to me about when she's 16?? Uhhhhhh I can't think about it right now!! icon_cry.gif My 2 year old will lie and if I confront her about it she comes over and hugs me and says "I love you mommy". It's so hard to punish her for lying when she does that.

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rlsaxe Posted 1 Mar 2007 , 4:20am
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you just know. And if you don't, tell them to stick out their tongue. If they're lying, it'll be purple. That ALWAYS worked for my mom! (haha)

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mocakes Posted 1 Mar 2007 , 1:48pm
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My 8 year old gets this "look" on his face. Then he nervously rubs his nose....it gives him away every time!

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