I think you did a GREAT job on the cake...now take a deep breath and relax!

woman, if your cake is a wreck, than mines have had no reason to live! the cake is wonderful, and for what you charged...you basically gave it away. Don't worry. People are quicker to complain about a cake than to actually give you compliments. don't know why that is...

So if you give back half, you will have $40 left. And as I recall from your previous post, you really need the income. I can't figure how you made any money on this at $80. Giving back half, you paid her to have the cake, if you didn't all ready chraging only $80. I think you should try pausing before reacting. If it helps, come on here and get some opinions before jumping the gun.

I also think the "oh my gosh" on facebook was a positive one. I think your cake is very pretty! Especially considering what you went through that week. You should always wait to see if someone asks for their money back. Don't go asking them!!