AFAIK there are none in El Paso ,but in Albuquerque, where my parents are, there is one called Cake Fetish with 3 locations around the city. One is downtown; another is on the east side of town, near two malls and a newer upscale shopping complex; the third is on the west side of town. I go there whenever I visit my parents. I just love, love, love their Inside-Out German Chocolate, Cookies and Cream, and Hot Chocolate cupcakes!

www.cakefetish.com

We have one in Birmingham called the Cupcake Station. It's a cute little shop in a small downtown area.

In St. Louis, we have two....The Cupcakery and Jilly's

there is a place i know of near where i live, its called Crave, ( http://www.cravecupcakes.ca/ )and theyre cupcakes are expensive..and good. not amazing like, omg how could i ever replicate this!?!? but, good like if you didnt, or if there wasnt someone around to easily bake for you, you know?
their website however is adorable, if you ask me.
check it out.
theyre cute and they do well.

They just opened on in Tulsa, OK. I haven't been there yet. I would love to have a cupcake shop but no $$ and no self confidence.