Ya'll are gonna make me cry. Thanks so much. I was so mad when I heard about the color change because I know that my aunt was upset about it and she deserved so much better. Hopefully, she can look back on that day and at least feel good about the cake. The only time I saw her smile was when she brought me to the table where the bride was sitting so that she could introduce us and let her know that I made the cake. That truly was enough gratification for me. Grandmazilla can just go back in her garage and repack her faded blue flowers!!! By the way Linda, I once gave a baby shower for my sister-in-law who was having a baby girl. Her great grandma brought two all in one turtlenecks with trains and cars around the collar. My sister yelled out something like "who in the world brought this-its for a boy." I could have just died. My sister is now banned from speaking at any family engagements because she can't control her big mouth!!!