Mimi, I sent you a PM with the photographer's name .
vgcea, thank you so much for that. I really like some of what you wrote and will incorporate some of it into my final draft. Some of it, I am saving in case the situation escalates...for instance, if she refuses my polite request, I will get a little more insistent and bring in my financial loss and I'd be a little more accusatory regarding the damage. I really want to get this done so I'm going to try to get the final message out to her today.
Evoir, I know, and that makes me nervous. Even if she doesn't associate my name, I stull wouldn't want her to use the pictures, even though can. It's why I referred to them as "images of my work". I'm really hoping she'll do the right thing.