I did infact email her and said basically "not during family hours" and that why don't we do the tasting at her house, and set up another weekend time that's mutually agreeable, on the weekend IF she wants to go with me. Hey, fact is she may not want me at all, who knows. She did respond saying she understood and to come to her house at original time / date.
True, home bakerys are not legal in Florida, but until you do this a few times out of your house and build up enough of a clientel to hold you over, who could afford a bakery? This is a side thing for me. Maybe I'll put in my contracts that it is a "suggested donation" instead of being actually paid...LOL j/k And until I built up a small clientel I couldn't even rent a portion of a bakery kitchen or church kitchen. It's a catch 22, that's for sure.
Thank you for all of your input.