Please (a pleading please... not an eye rolling please)... like I stated twice, I was not picking on you. I was letting you know why it isn't feasible for many people. And honestly... please don't stop posting because one person didn't jump on your bandwagon. I personally think CC could use nice people like you. Everyone isn't going to agree with everything you have to say or suggest, but it doesn't mean you are being shunned. Quite the opposite.
I think what you do is wonderful, and everyone here isn't a pro. It is for all levels of bakers and decorators and we all benefit for everyone posting. I think the community will benefit if you keep posting. Just be prepared to not have everything met with "Yeah let's do it!!".
I think it was more the persisting about not wanting to get a cookbook and how you weren't about to spend hours looking through the galleries, but people should do this extra thing because you would like it that made me want to post the other side of the coin. I know that's not how you intended to come across... I'm sure you aren't a demanding person... but you have to concede that your posts could come across that way. It could be a simple case of improper nettiquette. All caps is usually taken as shouting on the web and is often taken as being demanding. Or maybe reading tone into a post that wasn't there.
Please don't be angry over something so silly and stop posting. I think you could be a wonderful example for others to follow with your humanitarian efforts with your cakes. You don't have to give someone a flawless cake to make their year.