OP- I guess you didn't read about the 'nicest, kindest possible way' to say something.
Please stop misusing the word "bully". It's offensive.
Also- I cannot believe that you are a real poster now. I think you're just baiting people, asking how to price a wedding cake that you don't know how to make or price, not being able to spell anything but claim you're in school and then using 'whom' with a preposition. Shady.
Oh and then of course, throwing the word...