Puddles, that was a really great message. It said in a very polite way all the reasons that this just can't go on, money, time, paying customers, lack of appreciation, lack of pleasure or joy for you, etc. Succinct yet detailed. Well done, I can't think how you could have said a word better. So regardless of how he and the rest of your family react, just know that this change you are making is not in the least unreasonable, unfair or unkind.