And P.S. No, it's never ok to tell the bride she made a mistake choosing her cake topper. Who knows, maybe her grandmother just died and this was something she gave the bride at her shower just before she bit the big one so it has sentimental value. You can never tell. The only time I comment on a topper is if it's too large, too small and needs something around it to fill it out or it's too top-heavy.