Scorpio Men

Lounge By yummy Updated 29 Jun 2010 , 9:07pm by JaimeAnn

yummy Posted 28 Jun 2010 , 10:04pm
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Hello all! So I'm a leo woman and would love to hear about your experiences and thoughts on the scorpio man. I've figured him out but they are so frustratting.

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indydebi Posted 28 Jun 2010 , 11:18pm
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I luv the zodiac as a hobby (not as a religion, so no "you're going to hell" speeches, folks! Heard 'em all. It's a fun hobby, that's all!) icon_biggrin.gif

Scorpio is ruled by the (former) planet, Pluto, which rules Death, Destruction and the Underworld. Like the Scorpion in the sand, a Scorpio is waiting ..... waiting ..... waiting ..... for the unsuspecting fool to walk by and then ZINGO!!!! Big deathly sting on the foot! Every Scorpio I ever knew was untrustworthy, back-stabbing and an all around troublemaker. It's hard to see at first because of their personality that is always "hiding in the sand".

Ironically, I'm a Capricorn with a Scorpio ascending so I'm happy I have the strong sign of Capricorn to keep my b*tchy Scorpio under control! (Well ..... MOST of the time! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif )

veghed Posted 28 Jun 2010 , 11:47pm
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I say I don't really believe, but there is something to it.

I am a scorpio. I can tell you that everything indydebi says about scorpio men is the truth.

yummy Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 4:18am
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Thank you both. I believe there is something to it also. I am seeing everything that you described Indydebi. It's like just when you thought it was safe to go into the water with a scorpio they sting. I notice that they play mind games and are very secretive but have no problem wanting you to tell them what they want to know.

If anyone else have any stories, opinions or antidotes please join in.

JaimeAnn Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 6:24am
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Originally Posted by yummy

I notice that they play mind games and are very secretive but have no problem wanting you to tell them what they want to know.




I have been married to a scorpio Man for 24 years! and you are dead on with what you have all said... If I may add a few descriptive word.....

Selfish
Arrogant
Impulsive
Demanding
Bossy
Self-Indulgent
Dependent
Jealous
obsessive
Suspicious
Manipulitive
Unyielding
Controlling
Needy

Now some descriptive behaviors....

Tend to have addictive personalities (drugs,alcohol)
Think they are always right
Everything is someone elses fault
Always feel shortchanged or someone is out to get them
They are never wrong
Everything is one big conspiracy theory
Can be abusive, good at mental warfare
Always looking for the easy way
Want the best of everthing but don't want to work for it
They will hold the slightest thing against you but expect everyone to forgive and forget any of their wrongdoings.
Oh and did I say
They think they are always right!

I could probably think of more but i am getting mad hahahahahahahaha


UUUGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
I think I have had to much time with my husband, he has been off work for the last 15 months 6 days 9 hours 23 minutes and 38 seconds!!!!!!!!!

On the other hand my daughter is a Scorpio also and she is nothing like any of the above mentioned traits...

The only way I have been able to put up with being married to a scorpio male is because I am a Sagitarius (born on the scorpio cusp)
and I am MELLOW YELLOW! Although he can bring out the mean side of me hahahahahahaha


SORRY TO ANY SCORPIO MALES THAT ARE OFFENDED BY THIS! icon_smile.gif

mamawrobin Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 6:37am
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[quote="indydebi"]

I luv the zodiac as a hobby (not as a religion, so no "you're going to hell" speeches, folks!

That's too funny. Heard a couple of them myself thumbs_up.gif

JaimeAnn Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 7:03am
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After re-reading my post and thinking about it , I am wondering if maybe those are all just MALE traits and maybe have nothing to do with the Zodiac!

Big A$$ crybabies!

Sorry I am just on a man bashing kick tonight... icon_smile.gif

I am starting the She-Woman Man haters club!

( Of course this Does not apply to Rylan or Doug! I love you guys!) hahahahahahahahahah

yummy Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 8:14am
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Wow JaimeAnn, although I said above that I have figured him out, reading your list about them was exhausting; just like keeping up with their moody mood swings.

Ok so one minute he was hot the next he was cold. So my leo pride couldn't take it. He was acting like he didn't want to be bothered (started getting distant) so I gave him what he wanted and left him alone. No arguing, no nagging, no whining just backed away. Started to not be available to him when he called (no sense in playing myself on that one since he was the one who cut back on the phone calls, can't look like I'm desperatly waiting for his calls). Now that he notices this he's back to calling more. I'm keeping myself busy; hell it's summertime in NYC people. He knows my distance (phone is 90% quiet on my end; no attitude, no rudeness and no sarcastic remarks just cordially cautious I am) is because of him. When it takes me days to return his calls he'll never ask what's wrong or let's talk about the problem, he'll say things like I thought you were mad at me because... (something he knows he's doing). He won't stop it's like it's a game that he is going to make damn sure he wins. I'm not playing a game with him though (Leo pride). It's killing him to know that I care but I will DROP HIM LIKE HE"S HOT instead of acting like a weak female whining and crying about why.

I hadn't taken any calls from him in about 9 days. He called a mutual friend all concerned about having not spoken to me or me not returning any of his calls. The friend calls me asking me do I speak to him anymore? Why am I acting funny? Yada yada yada (I never complained or blamed to friend); call that man he's all distraught (HUH!) I promised the friend I'd call him the next day, he said he was going to call him and let him know. Before I could call him (Sat. I'm out doing errands) I come home and he had called me; I called him; no answer; an hour later he calls while I'm in the shower( missed the call)
called hiim back; no answer. He never called back. The next day I called him (only because I told our rmutual friend that I would and I didn't want it to seen like I was playing any games) he answered but he couldn't talk then said he would call me later. He did but it was only for 5 mins. Why? Agian, it's killing him that I won't get in his butt about his behavior and I'm acting real distant. So he ends the call because he says that I don't wnat to be bothered. Then he says ok MY FRIEND goodnight. This morning I get on facebook he left me a message " good morning Ms. Lorraine " I message him back saying good morning because I'm not rude and he is a 20 something year friend (it's several of us who grew up together and we all found each other on facebook fall/winter '09).

Tonight, after responding to Indydebi and Veghed response I switched over to facebook while waiting for more posts. I see I have a notification alert. I read it, scroll down and who's big face was staring at me on my news feed page He wrote on my wall "what is love, what is real love????" WTH!

JaimeAnn Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 8:33am
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Yes..... Games..

Sounds like he is looking for attention. Seems like he wants to be chased and when you are distant he wants to just keep enough contact to see if you are interested. It doesn't sound like he is looking for anything serious but wants someone to fawn over him . He sounds very childish and your best bet with dealing with him is probably to be direct. You may have to tell him "hey , I am not into playing games, I am a grown up! if you want to see me you will have to sep up and behave like a gentleman , or move on!" I know it is hard but Men do not take hints, they do not ubderstand inuendo, when you don't talk to them . Its "Oh shes mad, must be that time of the month or shes a B!%#$."

I am sorry you are in this situation , just ask yourself, Is it worth it. Does he bring anything to the table as a friend or more or is it just going to be a bunch of Bull$h!& !


My daughter had a BF like that . He would be distant , untill he was lonely then draw her in then say she was to "attatched" she finaly said screw you dude( shes a Scorpio and will only take so much before she takes charge.

She now has an Awesome Fiance that isn't clingy and isn't distant either, a perfect Balance. He lets her spend time with her friends without a problem and brings her flowers at work for no reason ( they have been together for a little over 1 year and are getting married next May)

Guess what the old BF called a couple months ago crying that he made a huge mistake ,he wanted her back and they were meant to be together he just didnt give it enough of a chance. She told him TOO BAD!

veghed Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 5:30pm
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Yummy, you need to drop this guy. He will only be interested as long as you toy with him. Do you really want to do that?

Scorpios and leos will always be jockeying for power.

Go get a virgo.

yummy Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 6:20pm
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Exactly! This is why the very first time (this time) I backed off. Like I said he knows why, he knows what he did or is doing, he knows this is where my distance is coming from. I told him during the beginning phone calls when we were catching up with each others lifes, that one of the things I don't do is drama and bullsh*t for no reason (if people have to go through something, can it be for a real reason) and this to me is a no reason situation. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. All this came about unexpectantly for no reason. So this is like a test to see if I am really as strong as I say I am in a relationship. Now since he knows why I backed away he still hasn't said hey I'm sorry for my behavior or just knock it off all together; he keeps playing, trying to break me. He wants me to speak on what's going on. I'm on to him though; as soon as I do, he'll say some old slick sh*t out his mouth (you know they love to sting) to hurt me, to down play the situation and make it seem like I'm over reacting. imagining this or too emotional. If I do this, he sees weakness and that means he has control. Right now, he has none because it's not going the way he thought. I don't know what he thought, but he thought wrong. He just don't know who he is dealing with. I am seriously tired of men and their crap. That's why I haven't been in a relationship in years. Just when I'm open to a relationship (it should be nice, we're old friends always had respect for one another, still do. This scorpio sh*t is ruining it) this is supposed to make me want to get into one. I'm getting too old for this; when will men? Looks like never too me.

Yes JaimeAnn a few weeks ago he did ask me was I on my monthly and it pissed me off. Why men don't ever see there faults in the situation? When we get distant or are mad it's because of that? Are the freaking serious with that crap?

Auryn Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 7:40pm
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I am a woman scorpio and love it.
Strangely enough I have never met a male scorpio.
The traits of a male scorpio for some reason (according to all the books) are the exact opposite of a scorpio female it would seem, except maybe the jealousy part.

From everything you have written about this guy, you need to stop calling him back.
He is bad news and just way too much stress.
There are way too many good guys out there for your to have to deal with this numb nuts' drama.
He is lucky you aren't a scorpio woman cause you'd have told him what for and stopped talking to him ages ago.

JaimeAnn Posted 29 Jun 2010 , 9:07pm
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Originally Posted by Auryn

I am a woman scorpio and love it.
Strangely enough I have never met a male scorpio.
The traits of a male scorpio for some reason (according to all the books) are the exact opposite of a scorpio female it would seem, except maybe the jealousy part.

From everything you have written about this guy, you need to stop calling him back.
He is bad news and just way too much stress.
There are way too many good guys out there for your to have to deal with this numb nuts' drama.
He is lucky you aren't a scorpio woman cause you'd have told him what for and stopped talking to him ages ago.





thumbs_up.gif My Daughter is a Scorpio! (Nov.9) Like you said other than the Jealousy , complete opposite!

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