You know you guys are great. You have made me feel much better. Some advice I am taking and some I am not.

but just to let you know my daughter wrote my sister a very good response stating that she came across very ignorate and conceted and then proceeded to set my sister straight. In the end my daughter was respectful, truthful and honest in telling my sister where to go and what to do with her opinions.

But now I find out that she is being nasty to the rest of my siblings. So I appoligized to my other sister (where we are having the family christmas gathering), told her I would try and be nice but couldn't promise, but response to the message will be loud and clear face to face. Oh and then all my other siblings are charming in.

Gotta luv family!

i personally like CakesbyCarla's response. puts her in her place while taking the high road and not sinking to her level of ugliness (is that a word? - lol)