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ANicole
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:42 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

I'm pregnant!

Surprised

Honestly, this is insanity. I have 2 kids. My son is 2 1/2. My daughter is turning 1 in 2 weeks! I haven't told most of my family yet. This totally wasn't planned. My first two were. And I had just seen the doctor like 3 days ago and convinced him to tie my tubes - which I was in the midst of getting the green light from the insurance company - when I was like..hm........ I'm two days late......hm.................. Well - then I found out via HPT last night.

I will definitely need lots of support during these 9 months if you all can try to keep me reassured and positive about this whole thing - I already love all of you, but I would love you even more! Smile

Not to sound like I am taking a blessing for granted... I am looking at it like this - it was meant to be. This little person is meant to be part of our family. That's all there is to it. And you can't argue with destiny! I do already love my baby and I'm sure he or she will be an awesome addition to the family. It's so strange that last time I got pregnant I was taking a Wilton class and I had to miss the final class because the smell of buttercream sickened me so badly. I have thought of that so many times since then whenever I see one of the CC members with the pregnancy ticker at the bottom of the screen I wonder how they can be around the buttercream all the time without puking...... Well - guess what?! I'm going to be one of those people! And strangely, I just started a class last Thursday! Surprised

Anyway, with just starting out my bakery, JUST getting my son potty trained about a month or so ago and JUST ABOUT to get my daughter off formula - I didn't even have a chance to do the happy dance yet at reaching these milestones and here I am ... getting ready to start all over again! AHHH I have mixed emotions... I can't help it. That's why I'm venting to you guys.. I just wanted some encouragement maybe from someone whose been in my shoes with starting a business and all...... Nothing will stop me - I'm hell bent on giving this thing a try (the bakery). I am someone who was born to be a mother, though. I've wanted kids my whole life. And I'm very blessed. They bring me so much joy I couldn't live without them. I can't even be without them for a few hours without missing them like crazy! So I guess it's going to be tough for a little while longer, but once they all get older, it will probably get a little easier.

Ok - so ... if you read through all of this and you're still with me - post a reply and tell me not to worry, okay?!!!!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:50 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Laughing You already sound exhausted!!! But hang in there, it's all worth it in the end. I only have one daughter and she's 18. While my baking business is finally kicking off. Made my first wedding cake today!! I'm taking three college classes this semester, work full time, wife, mom and oh yeah, my daughter graduates this semester from high school. So while I don't have other kids, except for the ones that hang out at my house with my daughter and also call me mom, I can somewhat relate!! Like I said, hang in there!!! Thumbs Up!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:50 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

I feel for ya girl! I have four at home. My youngest is four... just counting down those days until he starts kindergarten....Smile

Look at it this way, just one more little angel to lick the beaters for ya!

Good luck and congrats...and don't worry, cake does keep!...and you'll find the time to fit in everything that you want to do!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:51 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Don't Worry and congrats it will all work out God never gives us anything that we can't handle I'm happy for you I have only one child but as I get older I look back and wish I'd had more your very lucky I hope your have a Healthy Happy Baby I always think of the people who can't have any and want a baby you are very lucky your going to have three

Congrats
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:53 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Creativeone4 - that made me smile! I think it's really going to be okay. I'm just kind of in shock. No one ever told me how babies were made! (just kidding...)
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:55 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Molly, I think of that too. I definitely know I'm blessed. I'm just really having mixed emotions about all of it. In the end, it will be great! The next 9 months of being uncomfortable is really the part I'm dreading the most honestly!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:57 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Wow, I am jealous! With a 21 year old daughter whom lives on her own and is a junior in college and an 18 year old son graduating from high school this May, my house is kinda empty. I see all the little ones running in the mall and think, hmmm another one would have been nice. So count your blessings, ask for help, but most of all savor every moment. Even the tough ones!

Best wishes!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:57 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Awww, congratulations!!! Don't worry, everything will be fine. =)
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:58 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

*sending tons of positive energy!!!*
I only have one child (so far) and I know the heartache of leaving him to 'cake' (it's a verb for me now) for a few hours, but leaving the actual house to do so... first of all congrats on the bakery (and being ABLE to leave the house!) secondly, congrats on the to-be-new-addition, you'll be torn for awhile about everything. Hello, it's so wonderful that we women seem to get all that 'back-and'forth, weighing this-and-that' emotions -- HAH! Everything will work out for you, I'm certain of that. Fate always has a plan, and while things may seem sketchy right now, it will be fine. Rely on the support system you have to help you through any doubts, and be certain that you are a fien business-woman, and will help you family in the long run by continuing to live your dream! Show your babies that a happy family can be attained with working parents that love what they do. Good for you! Smile
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:00 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzt.....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzt
Did you catch that? That's positive energy and thoughts coming your way!!! You are right if you believe this has happened for a reason...this little person will be a blessing for your entire family for sure. Hang in there and pray for strength and guidance to follow your dreams and/or do what's best for your family (one might be different---or they may both be the same!) Take care and keep us posted on what happens!
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:02 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Congratulations & Good luck! I hope that the buttercream doesn't get to you this time.
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:08 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

I know 9 months does seem long but the rest of your life is what to look forward to and after reading your story it seems as though you should have a lot to be excited about and you will always have 3 on your side I come from a family of 3 myself and two brothers and let me tell you we had our ups and downs but no one better mess with us and as for my parents now that they are older I don't think my parents would have had it any other way I am the oldest the youngest was 10 yrs young then myself and with your babies being so close the can grow up together which is even better they'll always have each other and they are very lucky because their mom can make whatever kind of birthday cake they want
Your are Blessed and So Are They

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:09 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

You will be OK - just exhausted! I can relate somewhat to your situation. My son was 9 yrs old when I remarried at 37 yrs old. My new husband had never been married and didn't have any children so we thought we'd have at least 1 child. He was born 10 days before my 40th b-day. Because of the 12 yrs between the 2 ages of the kids, we didn't want each one to grow up an "only" child so we were considering having one more. When the baby was around 1, we started considering another baby. Some days, I wanted one more, other days I couldn't even consider it. My "bad" days were when the baby acted more in his terrible twos than other days. I was exhausted (I was 41 yrs old) and just when I had decided that my two "only" children would be just fine, we found out I was pregnant. Needless to say, my third son is my "buggy boo", the third light of my life. Lucky for me, his temperament is much mellower than that of his older brother. Razz I'm still exhausted but watching the two younger boys interact and "converse" is the highlight of my day. Now if I can only get them to stop fighting over the same empty box of cereal.... Laughing

Hang in there and if you have people you can ask for help, enlist them now! Take care of yourself and your family and everything else will work out.

Liz
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:16 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

Congrats on the new baby!

My kids are 14, 15, and 16 years old now. When they were babies and toddlers, it was an exhausting amount of work, but I was a stay at home mom and that was my job. Now that they're older, I am sad there aren't more little ones around!

You have been greatly blessed. Put your children first and everything will fall into place as it should.

You can do it!!! Smile

Hugs,
Sherri
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:16 pm  Reply with quoteBack to top

You guys are totally making me feel better. I knew you would. I'm over here chuckling to myself. Well... I better go to bed. I'm EXHAUSTED.... MUST ----- PRY --------- MYSELF ------- AWAY ------- FROM ------ CC! It's hard, but here I go........................ Good night!
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