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TheCakeGirl87
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Joined: Jan 06, 2007
Posts: 217
Location: Chattanooga, Tn
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 8:37 am |
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So this morning I was approched by one of my co-workers she is a friend but we are not very close. She proceded to tell me that a friend of hers was getting married in September and asked me if I would do the wedding cake. She also wanted it at cost. Its not that I care to do it, its just that I am in college dont have a lot of time or money and dont really think that I should have to do a cake at cost. So I think what I am asking is if you were put in this situation what would you do? |
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msladybug
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Joined: Aug 21, 2006
Posts: 136
Location: Middle GA
Birthday: Jun 11
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 8:39 am |
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Tell her you don't have time and can't do it for that cheap.
Or just say my schedule is full for that month. |
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yh9080
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Joined: Jun 21, 2005
Posts: 515
Location: Central Alabama
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 8:55 am |
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Just tell her that your schedule is full. You don't have to go into specifics. |
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Janette
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Joined: Jun 15, 2006
Posts: 3354
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:06 am |
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I won't tell you what I would tell her - simply NO |
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tiggy2
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Joined: Oct 07, 2005
Posts: 2509
Location: Omaha, NE
Birthday: Aug 13
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:10 am |
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Or maybe tell her time and material like contractors do. Does she work for free? I don't know why she would expect you to make a cake for cost for someone you don't even know! |
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all4cake
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Joined: Jul 02, 2006
Posts: 2521
Location: NC
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:10 am |
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If I were in that situation I would assess where I am with my cakes and where I want to be, who the cake is for and who and how many will be at the reception. At first glance, it may seem that I'm shallow(I am),but if I'm being asked to basically lose money on a cake, I wanna know how it will benefit me to be so generous. If it's gonna advance my career or get my work noticed I might consider doing it as long as I am in control of the design. She wouldn't be showing up at my place wanting the Taj Mahal on a doublewide budget. |
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Botanesis
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Joined: Jul 21, 2006
Posts: 135
Location: New Mexico
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:10 am |
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Absolutely NOT. Some people think a cake is as simple as popping it in the oven, then smothering a little frosting on it.
This girl should know better than to ask you for something like that. Especially if she is a friend. If you say yes, they are going to run all over you. Before you know it, you'll be making each layer a different flavor, the size of it will change, they'll want bigger and better things, all because they can get it cheap.
Please don't do it for cost. I think you'll regret it if you do. |
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sugarbakerqueen
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Joined: Apr 09, 2007
Posts: 117
Location: Washington
Birthday: Dec 07
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:11 am |
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I just think that is so incredibly rude! What is wrong with people now days? I would never ask any of my friends for a discount...if they offer one, that is a different story, but even then, I would over tip. WHy do people tend to treat their friends / family worse than total strangers?
I am a hairstylist and you would be amazed at all the discounts people try to get out of me. After 15 years, I just don't deal anymore. My final answer is 'it's not a hobby, it's my career! '
Sorry.....had to vent. This is a very frustrating subject!  |
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redpanda
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Joined: Aug 19, 2006
Posts: 974
Location: Southern California
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:11 am |
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Why would she think you'd do it for cost? That's a lot of nerve.
I think you already have lots of plans for that week.  |
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SweetSandee92
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Joined: Jun 29, 2007
Posts: 63
Location: Forestville, MD
Birthday: Oct 17
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:13 am |
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I agree with Janette.. just simply tell her NO!*but tackfully* I just can't imagine why she'd think you'd do a wedding cake at cost.. when it takes more time to decorate... and that's what you are really getting paid for...
Me.. "Sorry but I don't think I can do it.. thanks." |
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Mickig
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Joined: Apr 19, 2006
Posts: 138
Location: Southfield, MI
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:18 am |
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I agree with everyone else, tell her you can't do it. Don't feel guilty about saying no. Just think how ticked off you'll be if you say yes and then produce a beautiful cake for nothing. You don't even know the person who's getting married, so you can't even call it a labor of love. Frankly, it's pretty inconsiderate for someone to even ask you to do it.
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tiptop57
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Joined: Jan 27, 2006
Posts: 2394
Birthday: Jun 03
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:22 am |
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"No" is such a lovely under used word for adult women to use. |
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tnuty
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Joined: Sep 16, 2005
Posts: 404
Location: Rhode Island
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:33 am |
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No, nope, nada, no can do, dont think so, give me a break, are you kiddin me, excuse me!, for how much!, sorry but no, umm let me think.....NO, yeah uh duhh NO.. |
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debster
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Joined: Nov 28, 2005
Posts: 1363
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:33 am |
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I would say no also, You have to or they will run you ragged, I know first hand. After 25 years I'm even starting to tell family you get a 10% discount. I don't feel guilty since they buy their birthday cakes elsewhere, but when they want a huge thing they come to me and want it at costs. Nope, I'm done, and don't start it now then you won't have to feel mean later in life. People are just rude. 
Might I add amen to TNUTY................U go!!!!!!! Well said. |
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ssnc79
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Joined: Nov 20, 2006
Posts: 10
Location: NC
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Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:37 am |
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What was your initial response? Did you just say I'll get back to you? I think that you should tell her that you will give her an estimate of what you think your cake is worth and include your labor. Let her know this is what you do for all clients including friends. That way she can look over the estimate and if she doesn't like it then she can look elsewhere. If she chooses to look elsewhere I am certain she won't get a better deal. She obviously knows your work and came to you because she appreciates your talent! |
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